Everybody feels lonely sometimes. But only few of us are aware how important this feeling was for our ancestors – and that our modern world can turn it into …
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This video made me realize how lonely I am. Why I don't eat until 3am at my dorm because I don't want to run into anyone, why I never reply to texts, answer calls or open the door if anyone knocks, why I don't have any friends and go sometimes multiple days without saying a word
You shall be open to people and interact in a friendly manner but not be friends till you are sure they're your type.
I have lived alone as well as with huge number of friends back in college days. Being lonely is when I got the time to learn and develop.
Remember: Less people you chill with, less BS you deal with.
am ı strange ı have realy happy for not having friend ı should be go to therapist or something? ı mean ı have friends but ı actuluy dont want to do with them
I been feeling lonely or lonly for the past years now pluss im a tomboy and im in 8 grade. And i have not so manye friends..i been feeling depresst since 5 all the way too 8 there i am now. And i am realy happy now that i got more friends! But deep inside me i still have this big dark side in me and i don't want to let it out. Because than i feel sad all the time and mad. And i don't want that. But im still thankfull for that i have friends.
i talk to myself but with different forms theres sad me happy me angry me heck even gamer me and it helps it like my own imaniganary friend try it maybe youll like it
this video is even more important in 2020, i've had weeks without any human interaction because of the quarentine, slowly driven insane by the impossibility of social interaction
AMAZING video, I think I seen this in my future and did turn things around but only just short of the point of no return, where even though I got married and now surrounded by people (and animals) that love me my ability to feel genuine happiness is shunted big time. I feel drawn back to a solitary life because I don’t see how I am a force for good in anyone’s life. My wife has almost infinite patience but that just makes me feel even more that she deserves better.
I dont know where to go and I am too coward to end it all, I'm stuck in hell. I know thats this comments dont worth anything, but I just dont have anywere else to say anything. This torture, please, make it stop
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This was a video that really opened my eyes to myself. I am very defensive and I am scared to open up in an intimate relationship. I just isolate myself when my thoughts become negative most times. I yearn for closeness but I am very scared to do so. Thank you for exposing myself to the truth about my loneliness. It feels great to know u guys are there to help.
This video has really helped me wake up to my loneliness, i had a phase of my entire school life when i never got invited to birthday parties and that must've been caused by my loneliness. Thanks for this video. ❤
Idk if anyone else shares the same story as mine, but because of one woman whom i love denies me, threw me away, i feel loneliness. But i have several friends.. real or not.. idk
I have only one really good friend who I tell everything to unfiltered. To everyone else, I am a weird recluse. If that friend goes away, everything good, fun and warm about me will cease to exist, and the expectations from everyone else will be triumphantly fullfilled.
My sister moved away with her partner years ago. My two longest friends have drifted away over the last few months. My best friend stopped talking to me a few weeks ago because she didn't like that I was interested in another girl. And the girl I was interested in ghosted me a few days ago because I made a dumb joke about something that was personal.
I got 3 cats and a doggo. I love them so much. People are the worst. My animals never leave me, they never drift away, they never ignore me and they never take my jokes wrong.
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This video made me realize how lonely I am. Why I don't eat until 3am at my dorm because I don't want to run into anyone, why I never reply to texts, answer calls or open the door if anyone knocks, why I don't have any friends and go sometimes multiple days without saying a word
i dont answer friends calls coz i cant be asked to listen to all their shit after a full day of work myself
"insert corona joke here"
You shall be open to people and interact in a friendly manner but not be friends till you are sure they're your type.
I have lived alone as well as with huge number of friends back in college days. Being lonely is when I got the time to learn and develop.
Remember: Less people you chill with, less BS you deal with.
This puts a whole new spin on quarintene
i want a friend who cares about me
am ı strange ı have realy happy for not having friend ı should be go to therapist or something? ı mean ı have friends but ı actuluy dont want to do with them
I been feeling lonely or lonly for the past years now pluss im a tomboy and im in 8 grade. And i have not so manye friends..i been feeling depresst since 5 all the way too 8 there i am now. And i am realy happy now that i got more friends! But deep inside me i still have this big dark side in me and i don't want to let it out. Because than i feel sad all the time and mad. And i don't want that. But im still thankfull for that i have friends.
"Let's reach out to someone today."
Okay!
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Well, goodnight
Wait was the narrator trying to hypnotize me😂? Anyways the video is nice and full of knowledge as usual
I'm offended even though i agree with this
Im gonna recommend an excellent tool for self improvement. Enneagram, awesome 10/10.
I feel lonely all the time even with my the people I love or around my gf
Kurzgesagt: 'explains about loneliness and how it affects us'
Me, as a natrual introvert: JOKES ON YOU, I'M INTO THAT SHIT
Pain.
Introverts: Am I a joke to you?
thank wifi for bringing this on my recommended video section, and thank you too, i really needed it!
Made me even more depressed
F
I have borderline personality disorder. I am chronically suicidal. It'd be interesting to see this channels take on this
i talk to myself but with different forms theres sad me happy me angry me heck even gamer me and it helps it like my own imaniganary friend try it maybe youll like it
“And yet, an incredible amount of us feel isolated”
And now in 2020, and incredible amount of us are isolated.
This video made me feel protected.
I love Kurzgesagt!
5:53 😓&6:50,7:30 I can feel these .,…. things……,)
I feel a little less lonely knowing that everyone else is also lonely.
I come here everytime i feel lonely to understand what my brain is doing
I like your voice
this video is even more important in 2020, i've had weeks without any human interaction because of the quarentine, slowly driven insane by the impossibility of social interaction
This is a strikingly well written video. Damn.
AMAZING video, I think I seen this in my future and did turn things around but only just short of the point of no return, where even though I got married and now surrounded by people (and animals) that love me my ability to feel genuine happiness is shunted big time. I feel drawn back to a solitary life because I don’t see how I am a force for good in anyone’s life. My wife has almost infinite patience but that just makes me feel even more that she deserves better.
I am in dhis vid and i dont like it
Hold up … did she really spit on her at 2:56 ?
I dont know where to go and I am too coward to end it all, I'm stuck in hell. I know thats this comments dont worth anything, but I just dont have anywere else to say anything. This torture, please, make it stop
I dont have anyone to ask for help, I dont have anyone to talk to, it hurts so much, I just want it to end
please, I cant handle it anymore, please, I just want to die
Kurzgesagt and Vsauce are the youtubers i really dont want to watch but when i watch i wish to scrape the days away binge watching these amazing teaching youtubers
has anyone ever felt lonely after that one good friend among many good friends just stops to speak to u even though everyone else speaks to u
Эх, где же было это видео 4-5 года назад…
Same
The cure of loneliness is being the biggest meme for school and being cringe
This was a video that really opened my eyes to myself. I am very defensive and I am scared to open up in an intimate relationship. I just isolate myself when my thoughts become negative most times. I yearn for closeness but I am very scared to do so. Thank you for exposing myself to the truth about my loneliness. It feels great to know u guys are there to help.
This video has really helped me wake up to my loneliness, i had a phase of my entire school life when i never got invited to birthday parties and that must've been caused by my loneliness. Thanks for this video. ❤
Idk if anyone else shares the same story as mine, but because of one woman whom i love denies me, threw me away, i feel loneliness. But i have several friends.. real or not.. idk
Am I chronologically loneliness. If I dont feel lonely but the majority of the time I spend are being alone ?
I have only one really good friend who I tell everything to unfiltered. To everyone else, I am a weird recluse. If that friend goes away, everything good, fun and warm about me will cease to exist, and the expectations from everyone else will be triumphantly fullfilled.
My sister moved away with her partner years ago. My two longest friends have drifted away over the last few months. My best friend stopped talking to me a few weeks ago because she didn't like that I was interested in another girl. And the girl I was interested in ghosted me a few days ago because I made a dumb joke about something that was personal.
I got 3 cats and a doggo. I love them so much. People are the worst. My animals never leave me, they never drift away, they never ignore me and they never take my jokes wrong.
All are lonely and kind in the comments but in the reall life, they r the reason for others to be alone… pls be honest guys